Importance of Coaches

We've all had that one coach we absolutely can't stand. Whether it's because they yell at you a lot, seem lazy, are too nice, or seem to just not care they should be valued. Coaches have a huge impact on their athletes and should be wise about their decisions. Although coaches need to control their frustrations sometimes, so do athletes. I know it can become very difficult to have a good practice when you just can't stand your coach, but there are some things you need to take into account before judging your coach.

First, think of why your coach is even teaching athletes. I don't think someone who doesn't enjoy sports or kids is going to take up a coaching position just for money, because let's face it some coaches don't get paid a ton. While some coaches do get good pay, I still think their reasoning is deeper than that. Your coach is at practice primarily for you. He/she wants to see you succeed and improve just as much as you do. They would not be wasting their time at practice if they did not believe in you. You are the reason they are coaching. Understanding this can make a world of difference.

Second, take into account that your coach has a life outside of the sport you're playing. Coaches can have rough days too. They not only have a job outside of coaching, but probably a family they need to take care. Their time is just as precious as yours. They're not trying to have practice go later, but sometimes it's necessary if you want to see improvement. They make decisions they see best fit for the team.

Finally, think about the reasons your coach is irritating you. I don't think your coach is purposefully trying to annoy you. If they are coaching they aren't going to try and tear you down in any way. No coach wants to see an athlete fail in any way, shape, or form. Whatever they are doing is probably what they believe is going to help you most. They truly care for you, believe it or not.

Remember coaches are available to simply benefit the athlete. If you don't respect your coach you aren't going to get very far in the improvement process. Be grateful for what you have and value your coaches. They are the reason you've got this far and accomplished so much.